"If you don't have a good relationship with God, you can't have a good relationship with others."
- Lady Apostle Frances Dodoo-Amoo
Many young people battle with uncertainties concerning relationships and sometimes, in their eagerness to find answers choke their lives with many sorrows as a result of unwise counsel. But thanks be to God! G-Youth were blessed in the 2nd session of Day 3 of Camp 2015. Myriads of questions pertaining to relationships were answered. It's possible that your question (in your heart) is in here somewhere...with the answer based on God's word.
With three great women of God in attendance namely Lady Apostle Frances Dodoo-Amoo (has enjoyed her marriage for 3 decades!), Lady Rev. Mrs. Daisy Sackey and Lady Rev. Mrs. Abeasi, we were definitely blessed to receive answers to our questions. Study these questions and answers carefully and apply them to your current situation, or arm yourself with them to make informed decisions in future.
Q: "When are you ready to marry?"
A: "You are ready to marry after you have settled down. When you have a job, a place to live and are independent (that is, you can take care of your basic needs), then you will know that it is time for you to get married."
Q: "How long should you date?"
A: "Dating should not last for more than one year. Most prolonged courtships eventually do not lead to marriage."
Q: "What are the advantages and disadvantages of marrying someone ten years older than you are?"
A: "The differences in times may be a challenge to both of you. The older one may seem old fashioned for the younger one, and the younger may be restricted in his/her outings. It is best to marry someone who is not more than five years older than you are.
Q: "Is it good to be in a relationship?"
A: "It is OK for you to be in a relationship as long as the intent of the relationship is to end up together (in marriage), and both parties do not indulge in what married people do.
Q: " How can you tell if the lady you have in mind to get married to is the right person?"
A: "Watch out for a person who fears God. She must be responsible i.e. be able to cook, do house chores, etc. A supportive person."
Q: "If you observe that the qualities in the woman you love are way higher than yours (in terms of education, money and possessions), what should you do?"
A: "Upgrade yourself. Aim high. Improve upon yourself. If you have not been to the university, make sure you attend and get a degree. Learn more. Don't stay where you are."
Q: "Are intimate Internet relationships necessary?"
A: "No. They are not. How can you claim to love someone you barely know- ignore such relationships."
Q: "What is the foundational purpose of marriage?"
A: "Companionship. It is for helping each other."
Q: "Is it right for a lady to propose to a man?"
A: "It's OK."
Q: "How can you tell if a lady is genuinely in love with you?"
A: "The lady will be nice to you. She will often inquire about your future plans and she will definitely accord you lots of respect."
The discussion was very insightful, hilarious and fruitful.
DO!: You have got a few tips on how to prepare for marriage. Pray about your relationships. God will speak to you concerning what to do.
REVIEW: What key lessons you have learnt from today's Hear&Do? Please share to bless a brother or sister.
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